• Starting your life over again – from scratch

    No one likes starting over. Especially when lots of time, effort, energy and emotions went into it and you think you did your best. Sometimes your best as they say is not good enough. I want to ponder on that for a moment and respond by saying that once you feel that you have given your best in any situation, then it is good enough! However, if you have to start over, then just dust yourself off and look upwards and ahead and say “bring it on!”. What’s the alternative? Wallow, cry, succumb to your injuries, pride and shame? I don’t think so. It will only dig you deeper in a place[...]

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    Where do you get the motivation?

    I was in a meeting recently where I was asked that question. It’s a question that I have been asked several times by different types of people and under various circumstances. It could have been in a job interview, at a speaking engagement, a social networking event or just hanging with friends. The thing is people pick up my energy and drive almost immediately. If you are aware of yourself and what’s going on around you, it would be easy to pick up the energy I bring to a room and group of people. I pick it up from others as well and when two persons with the same or similar type of [...]

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    In Hindsight

    I dedicated 27 years of my life to a relationship and at the end of it, what is there to show for it? 2 beautiful children, yes, and don’t get me wrong, I am grateful for them for I cannot think what my life would be like without them. However, shouldn’t there be more? Don’t we all want some sort of gratification in our personal lives to show for it, whether it be marriage for some? Personal growth and development, achievement, success, investments? I don’t know! But I really don’t think anyone goes into a relationship, stays for 27 years and wants to see nothing! If I am wrong, tell[...]

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